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Fair warning: the thoughts in my mind often spill onto the page. In them, I find myself caught between two worlds\u2014capitalism and death\u2014struggling to understand what it means to be truly alive and live. I have one foot grounded in logic, acknowledging the fragility of the body and the mysteries of the mind. The other reaches for something more, something unseen but undeniably felt, while recognizing that even the space I need to write is sustained by the currency of this world. I live with quiet conviction in my values and a sense of confusion about life\u2019s mysteries, yet I believe this keeps me humble and drives my ongoing growth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Can this be the whole story of humanity?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My father died when I was eleven. He was only thirty.  That loss opened my eyes to a world most children never have to see. It wasn\u2019t just the grief, it was the confusion of it all, how someone so lively could… disappear. I learned early that life isn\u2019t guaranteed, and love, no matter how pure, can\u2019t always save you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After he died, I needed a mother who could hold my pain and reassure me that even though the world had fallen apart, I was still safe<\/em>. But she couldn\u2019t. She had her own unspoken fears and her own broken pieces. She never quite found the confidence to be herself, so how could she model that for me? So, I became that for myself. Protector. Performer. Provider of comfort\u2026 for others, primarily. Because when you\u2019re not seen, you learn to be useful<\/em>. You figure out how to read a room before entering, to fill in every emotional gap, to be the strong one, the funny one, the capable one. Even if no one ever asks you to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now I find myself fifty-one years into this human journey, with a body that holds both wisdom and weariness, and a heart that\u2019s become more tender, not tougher, over time. I learned early on that my thoughts could consume me; so, I began writing, and when I felt uninspired, I would read. Both writing and reading have been two sides of the same coin for me, helping me understand that words have the power to both drain and replenish my mind. They offer a balance during times of chaos and calm that swirl within and around me. I continue to trust the process of expressing and discovering myself, as it always guides me back to who I am and helps me make sense of the world around me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I continue to recognize and acknowledge that my journey of self-expression unfolds within the system of capitalism, an imperfect system, yet one that provides me the space to step back and rediscover who I am, as well as the room to explore my inner world. Capitalism and its framework have kept me captive, chasing, and consuming until I faced the one truth I could not escape: we have no idea what happens after death. I\u2019ve learned to play the game, perform roles, meet expectations, and climb the ladder. Yet, the more I achieved, the emptier I felt. No title, house, or handbag ever filled the part of me that yearned for meaning<\/em>\u2014 for the soul, for the kind of fulfillment that comes from being, not having<\/em>. Consumerism both traps and liberates, creating a tension that I\u2019ve learned to live with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As I remain in the hive of busyness, caught up in commerce and the currency of survival, death also keeps me on the edge of everything, humbling me with its unknowable horizon. The market and moments beyond price will always coexist within me, nourishing each other in quiet reciprocity. The few moments that cannot be bought and that sustain me are: <\/p>\n\n\n\n