Much of what I feel and focus on is understanding what it is, why it happened, and how I can fix and move forward in a different format.\u00a0 Do I question it all?\u00a0 YES, is that healthy?\u00a0 For me, YES, again.\u00a0 Breaking down false beliefs about myself or situations to build a solid personal foundation based on my true thoughts is what knowing myself looks like.\u00a0 It offers me peace of mind and stability, a sense of true self.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I continue to recognize that when something comes or someone doesn\u2019t align with my beliefs, values, or desires, I simply say no, that isn\u2019t for me.\u00a0 Breaking down and thinking about who I am and what I need is beyond empowering and brings contentment.\u00a0 Although, my toxic trait that has not left is I still get mad about old pain even if I have moved past it.\u00a0 Because I still don\u2019t understand why I deserved it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I promise you this. You must catch me while I care…once I stop caring, I am a whole different person. I also think there\u2019s a point in one\u2019s healing journey where you stop trying to convince others to do the right thing.\u00a0 Lately, I have been observing their choices, understanding their character, and deciding if I will continue allowing them in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Or maybe the journey isn\u2019t so much about becoming anything. Perhaps it is about un-becoming everything that isn\u2019t me, so I can be who I was meant to be in the first place.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Much of what I feel and focus on is understanding what it is, why it happened, and how I can fix and move forward in a different format.\u00a0 Do I question it all?\u00a0 YES, is that healthy?\u00a0 For me, YES, again.\u00a0 Breaking down false beliefs about myself or situations to build a solid personal foundation […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":635,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,3,8,48,46],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-634","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-critical-thinking","category-empowerment","category-foodforthought","category-growth","category-healing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/634","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=634"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/634\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":637,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/634\/revisions\/637"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=634"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=634"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=634"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}