{"id":297,"date":"2017-02-23T07:09:13","date_gmt":"2017-02-23T07:09:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/?p=297"},"modified":"2017-02-23T18:32:14","modified_gmt":"2017-02-23T18:32:14","slug":"297","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/prolificpreambles.com\/?p=297","title":{"rendered":"Loony Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Is a contradiction,<\/p>\n<p>An ability of being human.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The work of true love<\/p>\n<p>Is never conflict-free.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Flawed and full of fears,<\/p>\n<p>Foolish conduct occurs<\/p>\n<p>With attempts to lather in lotion.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yet a unique bond forms<\/p>\n<p>With a protective role,<\/p>\n<p>Despite the stubbornness and<\/p>\n<p>Creases within a fatigued face.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Activating a highly difficult balance<\/p>\n<p>And delicate dance<\/p>\n<p>Between a version of loony and lofty love.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>No normal patterns,<\/p>\n<p>As we twirl to our tune of<em> Loony Love<\/em>, daily.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Learning to love can be demanding.<\/p>\n<p>Frustration occurs.<\/p>\n<p>Annoying habits, hard to ignore.<\/p>\n<p>Finding a friend for life, eventually follows.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Truth is, loving can create acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>An exposure,<\/p>\n<p>Re-examining the view of self-love,<\/p>\n<p>An improvement involving the singular versus the shared.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Loony Love<\/em> is a gamble.<\/p>\n<p>Desired outcome, unpredictable.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Two flawed individuals, injured and misplaced.<\/p>\n<p>Finding hope in common and contrasting storylines.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Delving into complexities,<\/p>\n<p>Negotiating differences intelligently,<\/p>\n<p>Teaching and finding the best version of each other,<\/p>\n<p>A lifetime project of betterment.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Loony Love<\/em> is not for the feeble of heart.<\/p>\n<p>It challenges our core.<\/p>\n<p>Igniting emotions, aggravating and possibly annoying.<\/p>\n<p>Enduring our own and our partner\u2019s weaknesses,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Building better behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>Fewer blame games.<\/p>\n<p>Dissolving sullenly silent times.<\/p>\n<p>Each taking responsibility for missteps.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Disengagement is dangerous.<\/p>\n<p>Going bonkers is typical.<\/p>\n<p>Putting the puzzle pieces back, together.<\/p>\n<p>Building better behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yes, this is <em>Loony Love<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A spinning of two hearts.<\/p>\n<p>Tired and twisted.<\/p>\n<p>Often times, out of control.<\/p>\n<p>Waiting and wanting to be wooed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Similar to spun sugar,<\/p>\n<p>Delicate to touch,<\/p>\n<p>Delicious to taste,<\/p>\n<p>Easy to scald.<\/p>\n<p>Crafting a stunning web of glossy saccharine strands,<\/p>\n<p>Yet, taking years of practice and perseverance to master.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Celebrate crazy.<\/p>\n<p>Complex layer by layer,<\/p>\n<p>Succumb to madness.<\/p>\n<p>There is no normal in love.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Discovering splendor in calamity,<\/p>\n<p>Cultivating chaos and control,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In everyday life.<\/p>\n<p>Always together,<\/p>\n<p>Despite the drama.<\/p>\n<p>Tilting toward antipathy, then tipping back to empathy,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I feel saner and happier<\/p>\n<p>By reexamining my very view of love.<\/p>\n<p>Realizing the real work of love is not in the falling,<\/p>\n<p>But in what comes after,<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Love is in the little things.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Unless it\u2019s mad, passionate and extraordinary,<\/p>\n<p>With mutual weirdness, it\u2019s a waste of your time.<\/p>\n<p>There must be, must be <em>Loony Love<\/em><\/p>\n<p>For it to be long-lasting.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00a9 February 2017 Shannon Hogan Cohen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is a contradiction, An ability of being human. &nbsp; 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